Well today didn’t start how I imagined, at 6am I was in the local A&E with Polly as we was up all night for the forth time in a row with her coughing throughout the night. She has had a cold since the start of the Winter season at the end of September, it’s been on and off with no major concern but after completing 3 course’s of antibiotics with no sign of it going I started to worry. The last course ended at the weekend and her cough started again just a couple of days after, it has got progressively worse each night with her waking nearly hourly! It’s been pretty gruelling, taking me back to the days when Polly was waking up every 2 hours in the night and every day I survived on a couple of hours sleep - a sad time!
So this morning I had enough and decided she needed to be reviewed and have a chest x ray, I was just imagining the worse and didn’t want to leave it in case it was developing into something more serious. Thankfully her chest x ray was all clear - GOOD NEWS! It was actually the first time in Polly’s short life that she’s had a clear x ray and she has had more than I can count on both hands. Her bloods were taken, which she was an absolute champ for and I distracted her by playing her favourite ‘pup academy’ on Netflix, whilst the doctor and nurse held her foot to squeeze her blood out.
Her bloods came back fine, her infection marker was 6 - the doctor said anything under 10 they don’t tend to treat as it’s so minor. We was given an inhaler to see if that helps her when she gets a consistent bad cough.
Lots of my followers said that their children have been the same through the winter and suffered with chest infections, wheezing, asthma for years. The dread of waking up in the night to your child coughing, especially when you have experienced time in and out of hospital is really difficult. The fear that presents itself in that short window of hearing them coughing, the questions that run through your head and mentally going through what to pack for a hospital trip and where everything is. Thinking how long will we be there for and hoping they won’t keep you in.
In Polly’s first 6 months of her life she spent most of it in hospital, it’s an attachment of fear for me that is very hard to let go of. When I had Polly she spent over 3 and a half weeks in NICU, we was home for two weeks and I had a check up appointment at our local hospital. I took her on my own and it still haunts me what played out that day. After checking her oxygen levels the consultant wasn’t happy, she admitted us which I was so angry about and so unprepared for. Just being back in that hospital environment, living there more than we had been living in our new family home. Such a strange time with strange memories, we both miss that house so much that we spent literally less than a year in. The home we brought Polly back to for the first time, when we was coming to grips with our new life of parenthood. Winging everyday and working it all out step by step. Not your typical start to parenthood, but just look at how far we have come.
The bigger Polly gets the stronger she is becoming, she has been able to keep a cold at bay for two months. Last year that hospitalised her, and I never believed it when parents who had been in our shoes told me every year gets easier and the hospital trips become less frequent. I am so grateful for where we are at now, all that we have achieved and overcome as a family. But the dread of going back to the H (hospital - urgh I hate saying the word) it lingers over me from time to time. When I think about seeing her lay in a bed for 24 hours a day, and I am sat in a windowless room thats stuffy and I haven’t slept for two nights and am starting to loose my patience and get snappy. The times you need two doctors and a nurse to pin Polly down to take her bloods, and because her blood clots they never get a significant amount to take so have to re do it. That causes trauma to the parent, if the child is young enough not to remember, that’s all a parent can remember. But even as I type this I know parents who have been in much much worse situations than us, I think of them and I think we are lucky. Not in a pitiful or patronising way, but you got to look at the positives in everything, the what if’s and how different your life could be in a worse off position.
Today we was lucky to be told there is nothing on or in Polly’s lungs, that we could go home and that she is well enough to just fight this cold off. To lift our spirits and well everyone’s because how can Polly not make you smile?! Some of her Christmas photo’s I styled and took this year, I look at these and still cannot believe how lucky I am that she is mine.







